It Goes Down in The Swingers Club

Join me as I discover personally wtf happens in The #1 Swingers Club in the US (PART 1 out of 3)👀

I want to start by saying that I dont 100% consider myself or identify as a Swinger. I identity as a women who loves sex, sexy men and women, the art of seduction, and the freedom to partake in sexual exploration and I get off on being a Voyeur. In the last 2 years, since turning 32, I have decided to finally allow myself the freedom to explore the different sexual sides of myself in however that may look. Without shame and guilt (FUCK YOU CATHOLIC CHURCH!) god I love freedom of speech, oh is that why I’m a writer? ok my bad back on track hereeee

So last summer my partner/twin flame/fiancé/hubby/man (for those of you that thrive on labels) and I decided to start a podcast about opening up our relationship, maybe you caught it? Shameless Plug: It’s called Everybody Does It Podcast. Go check it out you might learn a thing or two. We stopped at 5 episodes tho cuz life got pretty busy for us and my bae got a hella amazing job promotion so yeah the podcast had to sit out but we did well with it and will probably start it up again one day.

So in the process of making this podcast and finding a community on Instagram, we made some interesting online friends along the way, and one couple who is very OUT and OPEN about their marriage and have decided to enlighten us all with the Art of Swinging named Russ and Ashley and known online as thehotcouple_inga (if you are interested in really learning more about swinging, go check them out!)

SOOOO anyways we interviewed them on our podcast and got to know all about their swinging lifestyle cuz we had kinda dabbled in it before but honestly we really didn’t know wtf we were doing, we are still very much babies at this, we just emotionally mature so it helps.

They live in Georgia and we live wherever we are at the time so we had briefly spoken about one day going to their favorite swingers clubs which is in Atlanta, GA and also happens to be the #1 swingers club in the US. lucky them.

And as life and our luck would have it, my man was sent on a work trip to Atlanta, GA for 2 weeks. Lucky us. Of course, him being the amazing suga daddy that he is hahaha I’m only kidding, I dont consider him a suga daddy, but he’s def my #1 provider and investor. So #1 Man buys me a weekend round trip ticket to ATL for some very much needed R&R and fun and as usual, I start plotting. Hmm what kind of fun could we get into down there? I’ve never been to ATL and I know they call it HOTLANTA for a reason, and that’s when I thought wait aren’t Russ and Ashley down there? Oh how about I reach out to them and we check out what its like at that Swingers club? I know I dont want to do no typical clubs or bars, as someone who is trying to recover from alcohol, I dont need to be around environments where it easily flows. In Swingers Clubs its BYOB so if you wanna drink, you bring it, which is helpful cuz I can control it better. (more on my drinking and sobriety later tho).

So I bring my wonderful plan to my wonderful #1 man and of course, he says sure why not? or something supportive that implies a yes along those lines.

I instantly get excited, nervous and turned on. And like a true manic baddie, I immediately book an appointment for a pedi, lips and lashes.

So here we are in ATL and I look HOT AF, and that’s because there are no ugly women just broke and lazy ones.

It’s Saturday, the day of the Swingers Club and their theme of the night is royal purple so I make sure my man and I have our purple theme outfits cuz its just rude to show up to a party and not follow the theme IMO. Plus we also get $$$ off our entrance free for following up on the theme. I love a sexy deal!

SO to be a Swinger or go to these clubs you gotta take into account that it costs money. Also I realized i never actually defined what a Swinger is for those that are new to the word and lifestyle.

According to the Oxford Dictionary aka Goggle: A swinger (noun) is a person who engages in group sex or the swapping of sexual partners. A swingers club is not any different than any other club, except its acceptable and encouraged to get naked, walk around in lingerie and engage in sexual fun (if you want to!) THERES NO PRESSURE to play whatsoever. And everyone must ask for consent although beware once alcohol takes over some people have blurred lines of that so always practice discretion and dont over do it on the drinking! And remember NO is a full-sentence. And it’s OK to reject and be rejected.

Everyone MUST sign a waiver (basically that says your NOT a prude or offended by naked people and sexual acts) and buy a membership, memberships are good for 2 months or a year depending on what you prefer and budget wise. We went with the 2 months and it was $70 plus the Saturday night fee which was $90 and then we upgraded to The Diamonds Club which is separate to the club and has a VIP type vibe, made to order 5 star entrees, private playrooms, nice locker rooms with attendants and all that good boogie swingers shit and that was an extra $240 for the night. Then we got $10 off for being on the guest list and wearing the theme so all in all with taxes and fees it was about $400. Which honestly is what a lot people pay at regular clubs for bottles and VIP and NO CHANCE to actually fuck around. And since Russ and Ashley said Diamond Club is where its at, we decided fuck it, lets go all out and I’m glad we did!

The club itself called Trapeze is really cool inside, they have bartenders to mix and pour your drinks, a DJ, lots of sitting and lounge areas, a buffet and a stripper pole in the middle of the dance floor. Then in the back, they have the changing rooms and play areas/beds/pool table. We were also happy about the fact that Saturday is also ONLY for couples and single women. Honestly we both could do without the single men(more on that in Part 3) You wouldn’t think it was a swingers club when you first walk in and we pulled up around 9:30pm and it closes at 4am so yeah we were early. But according to our swinger gurus, they advised that we get there early (doors open at 8pm) And we were about to find out what all the excitement is about….

I felt that as soon as we walked in…all eyes were on us. and I LOVE that feeling. I can feel my pulse rising, my skin tingling and my mind racing with thoughts of “I wonder what’s going to happen here tonight…”

Well, look at the time, I gotta go back to mom mode, but no worries, PART 2 will be up by Friday of this 3 part Series! Say tuned, it get juicccyyyyyy😜

Seriously how sexy are we?!

I look like a deer in headlights but it was dark in there and I had no idea the flash would be so bright (I’m still cute tho)